what the real meaning of the word he spoke to you

Listen , and you' l understand =)

What he says: “I really like your shoes.”
What he means: “I really like you.”
Why he says it: Granted, he could genuinely like your shoes. But if he says this during the early stages of dating, it also likely means he’s physically attracted to you — but doesn’t want to come right out and say it and seem like a dog. Ty Marciniak claims that this is one of the first things he says when he’s into a girl. “It boosts her confidence, but it also shows her I’m fashionable and sweet,” he says. “She’ll notice that I didn’t come right out and compliment her legs or something.” Which is, of course, what he really was complimenting in the first place. Get it?

What he says: “Maybe we should take some time off from each other — you know, take a break.”
What he means: “Maybe I’m better off keeping my options open.”
Why he says it: Seems harsh, but it’s common: “This kind of statement is driven by the man’s fear of hurting the woman or by wanting to have it both ways — having her without committing,” explains Alon Gratch, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist and author of If Men Could Talk. Problem is, women often take “the break” at face value. Trust me, if a guy is crazy about you, he’ll want to spend as much time with you as possible, period.

What he says: “I am listening!”
What he means: “I’m listening, but I really don’t want to get into a long, emotional discussion right now.”
Why he says it: When a guy zones out, women generally interpret that to mean he’s shut her off. More likely he’s just overwhelmed. “Men process verbal information better when it’s direct and to the point,” says Haltzman. Scott Borchert agrees. “When I say this, it usually means I just wish she’d get to the point sooner,” he says. One way around this is to ask him for his advice — guys love to fix problems — or to make sure he’s primed for a marathon talk session. So rather than launching right in, say, “This story’s kind of involved — can you listen now or should we talk later?”

What he says: “You’re just too good for me.”
What he means: “I need out of this relationship.”
Why he says it: “I’ve said that many times, but not once have I meant it,” admits Ron. “What I meant was I needed an out in the relationship, but I wanted to make her feel good about it.” Another popular alternative to this is the, “You deserve someone better than me” line. So why can’t guys just come out and tell you the truth? Unless you’re new to the planet Earth, you may have noticed men aren’t big on having talks — particularly breakup talks. In fact, they’ll say anything to avoid them, such as buttering you up so you don’t chew them out. “Men don’t go to places they’re afraid of,” says Gratch. “We don’t like to go where we might have to open up about feelings.” Did he just say feelings? Blech!

What he says: “I think I’m falling in love with you.”
What he means: “I am this close to saying the L-word, but I can’t bring myself to say it just yet and when I do say it, I want to be sure you’ll say it back.”
Why he says it: Ron calls this an “in-between line” — it’s a warm-up act to “I love you,” and it tests the waters to see if she’s feeling the same way. For women, talking about your emotions and exposing your vulnerabilities is a way to bond with another person, “but men don’t view exposing your vulnerabilities as a positive,” says Haltzman. “They don’t want to appear weak.” That’s why words like “thinking” and “falling” come in very handy — they give him an out. But they also allow him to express something meaningful in a way only he understands. Hopefully, now you will, too.

7 Skin care rules dermatologists swear by

Want smooth, pretty, age-defying skin? We thought so. Who better to learn from than the pros who think about dermal health all day long? From what you eat to when you wash your face, here are 7 small changes that can make a big difference in tone, texture, and overall glow.


1. Suds up at night

"The most important time to wash your face is before you hit the sack," says Doris Day, MD, a New York City–based dermatologist. Dirt, bacteria, and makeup left on overnight can irritate skin, clog pores, and trigger breakouts. Remove this top layer of grime with a gentle face wash (skin should feel pleasantly tight for 10 to 15 minutes post-cleansing), which also allows anti-agers to penetrate deeper for better results. Because oil production dips with hormonal changes in your 40s, cleansing twice daily can dry out your complexion and make wrinkles look more pronounced. To refresh skin in the morning, splash with lukewarm water.

2. Be UV obsessed

Nothing is more important than wearing sunscreen (ideally, SPF 30) every day if you want younger-looking skin. Even 10 minutes of daily exposure to UVA "aging" rays can cause changes that lead to wrinkles and sunspots in as few as 12 weeks. If your moisturizer isn't formulated with a built-in broad-spectrum SPF 30 sunscreen, be sure to apply one daily to block both UVA and UVB rays.

3. Manage stress

Emotional upheavals can make your skin look 5 years older than your chronological age, says New York City dermatologist and psychiatrist Amy Wechsler, MD, author of The Mind-Beauty Connection. Constant anxiety increases the stress hormone cortisol, which causes inflammation that breaks down collagen. It also triggers a chain of responses that can lead to facial redness and acne flare-ups. To quell inflammation, eat antioxidant-rich foods such as berries, oranges, and asparagus. When you're feeling tense, Wechsler recommends a few minutes of deep breathing (inhale through your nose, hold for 3 counts, and release through your mouth).

4. Use a retinoid

Research shows that these vitamin-A derivatives speed cell turnover and collagen growth to smooth fine lines and wrinkles and fade brown spots. Prescription-strength retinoids such as Renova provide the fastest results--you'll start to see changes in about a month. To help skin acclimate to any redness and peeling, apply just a pea-size drop to your face every third night, building up to nightly usage. Milder OTC versions (look for retinol) are gentler, although it can take up to 3 months to see noticeable results.

5. Update your routine

Altering even one thing in your regimen every 6 to 12 months jump-starts more impressive improvements in tone and texture. "When you apply products consistently, your skin slides into maintenance mode after about a year," says New Orleans dermatologist Mary P. Lupo, MD. To keep your skin primed for rejuvenation, substitute a cream that contains alpha hydroxy acids for your prescription retinoid twice a week to boost the benefits. Or bump up your OTC retinoid to an Rx formula.

6. Eat omega-3s

These "good fats" in foods such as salmon, flaxseed, and almonds boost hydration, which keeps skin supple and firm. The same isn't true of the saturated fat in dairy products and meats, which increase free-radical damage that makes skin more susceptible to aging. Limit saturated fat intake to about 17 g daily.

7. Exercise regularly

Studies find that women who work out regularly have firmer skin than similar nonexercisers. The reason: Exercise infuses skin with oxygen and nutrients needed for collagen production. To keep your skin toned, make time for at least three 30-minute heart-pumping workouts per week.

10 makanan buat kau kurus

Dah seminggu aku mengerjakan badan aku yang naik macam labu ni. cuak pulak balik kolej nanti dah tak muat baju-baju tu. oleh sebab tu aku mengambil inisiatif dengan exercise la sikit-sikit.

Nak jadi macam sean faris memang tak dapat la .Cumanya berusaha sampai mana yang boleh kan?

Jadi kat sini aku jumpa tips-tips diet yang bersesuaian untuk mereka-mereka yang rasa badan sudah mcam kongkang tu.(post ini dalam bahasa inggeris)

Peanut butter

Why it's a 10 best:This popular pantry item offers protein and heart-healthy unsaturated fats.

Use it it: Snacks, sandwiches, sauces, and baking goods.

Cost: About 20¢ for 2 tablespoons

Eggs

Why they're a 10 best: Eggs are a good source of lean protein, and also contain vitamin B12, riboflavin and phosphorus.

Use them in: Omelets, frittatas and salads

Cost: About 13¢ per large egg

Oats

Why they're a 20 best: This grain helps lower LDL (bad) cholesterol.

Use them in: Baked goods, breakfast and to stretch ground-meat dishes

Cost: About 17¢ per ½ cup for quick-cooking oats

Apples

Why they're a 10 best: This fruit is a good source of vitamin C and is full of both soluble and insoluble fiber.

Use them in: Salads and baked goods; as a snack

Cost: About 60¢ each, depending on variety and season

Spinach

Why it's a 10 best: This leafy green is loaded with vitamins (A, C, K and folic acid) and manganese.

Use it in: Salads, pasta dishes, casseroles, soups and stews

Cost: About $1 for 5 ounces of fresh spinach

Beans

Why they're a 10 best: This tasty staple provides lean protein that’s full of fiber, calcium, folic acid and iron and other minerals.

Use them in: Salad and stews

Cost: About 35¢ per ½-cup serving (canned)

Frozen vegetables

Why they're a 10 best: They provide fiber and an array of nutrients, depending on which veggies you buy.

Use them in: Sides and casseroles

Cost: About 40¢ per serving

Sweet potatoes

Why they're a 10 best: These spuds are very filling (because they contain fiber) and a source of vitamins A and B6.

Use them in: Main and side dishes

Cost: About $1 each






Why it's a 10 best: Brown rice is a whole grain and a source of vitamin B6, magnesium, copper, zinc and manganese.

Use it in: Soups, salads and side dishes

Cost: About 37¢ per ½ cup (cooked)

Canned tuna fish

Why it’s a 10 Best: This fish is a healthful lean protein and contains omega-3 fatty acids.

Use it in: Sandwiches, casseroles and salads

Cost: About 75¢ for 3 ounces

12 o'clock letter. TIk Tok TIk Tok.

Ever since i saw you that day , i felt there is something different about you.

I have the first look at you and in a second i like you.
There is so much more people that are pretty out there but you are just perfect for me.

I don't know why.

Am i crazy ? liking you when i've never meet you.


Whenever you are sad , i felt the pain .
Whenever you are angry , i am burning inside .
whenever you are hurt , it causes me a deep wound ,

And the best part is , you don't even know me. And i don't even know you.

I know you are hurt.
Every boy is a villain to you now , and the world turns black.
Life is cruel for you .

When we are young , everything seems to be at the end of the world.
but , it is not.

Today ,

i am sitting here watching the moon and smiling . I am praying that one day , you will know that life isn't always that cruel.

In the small part of this world ,there is someone who can support you and be with you whenever you are in pain , sadness and hurt.

I don't ask you to believe me .
I just ask you to believe in destiny.


if you let me,

i will be by your side ,
For now and always ,

9 cara untuk menjimatkan wang untuk penggunaan petrol (RAHSIA TERBESAR TERBONGKAR)

Wow --> cane aku tau cara-cara nak menjimatkan minyak ni?

Zaman sekarang ni , siapa yang tak gunakan kenderaan bermotor . Nenek roommate aku pun guna motor tau. Jadi automatiknya kita semua nak jimatkan harga minyak yang semakin meningkat masa kini.

Perah punya perah , dapat la sikit info :

9 cara untuk menjimatkan wang bagi penggunaan petrol ialah :


1. Biar lambat asal selamat


Penggunaan minyak akan mula naik bila kamu pandu lebih daripada 60 mph . Bagi setiap 5 mph lebih daripada 60 mph ,kamu kena bayar 24 sen . Jadi , cuba gunakan fungsi CRUISE di lebuhraya .CRUISE mengawal gear kamu jadi , dia menjimatkan minyak.


2. Sentiasa sabar dalam lalu lintas


Pemanduan secara agresif -memecut , brek ,- bukan saja bahaya tapi boleh mengurangkan minyak kamu sebanyak 33 percent di lebuhraya dan 5 percent di jalan bandar.



3. Tapi jangan terlalu sabar


Pendingin hawa boleh mengeringkan minyak, jadi pastikan kamu tak biarkan ia terbuka tanpa fungsi.Jangan bukanya dan tingkap sekali. Boleh je kamu nak tutup pendingin hawa dan bukak tingkap dalam kesesakan.-(kalau tahan la mandi peluh)

Bila kamu memandu melebihi 55 mph , terutamanya pada masa yang lama , sebaliknya adalah benar , Jangan buka tingkap sebab nya kereta akan kurang aerodinamik dan meningkatkan geseran.Jadi , penggunaan minyak akan meningkat. Dalam jarak yang jauh , penggunaan pendingin hawa sebenarnya membantu menjimatkan minyak sebanyak 20 percent.


4. Jangan hanya duduk di sana

Jangan biarkan kereta tak bergerak dan kamu biarkan enjin kereta hidup.Ini akan meningkatkan pemanasan tanah rendah dan penghasilan debu yang menyebabkan asma .Kalau nak panaskan enjin. gunalah beberapa minit sahaja.


5. Selalu servis kereta

Membaiki kereta yang perlu di betulkan pengeluaran maksima bagi minyak untuk purata 4 percent. tak paham ye?? camni , contohnya kereta kamu hanya perlukan 4 % tapi sebabkan kamu tak adjust tuning dia kamu guna 5 % . Jadi kamu kena check la tuning dia.



6. Periksa tekanan angin


Memastikan tayar cukup tekanan angin boleh membantu menjimatkan minya pada kadar 3.3 percent. Lagipu, lebih selamat dan memanjangkan jangka hayat tayar kamu. Selalu lah perikasa tayar alignment dan balancing .


7. Jangan penuhkan barang dengan muatan berlebihan

While it mainly affects smaller cars, carrying extra weight means burning extra gasoline, no matter how big your vehicle is. On average, you may be cutting your fuel efficiency by up to 2 percent for every 100 extra pounds you haul.

Walaupun benda ni lebih jelas pada kereta yang kecil , muatan berlebihan bermaksud membakar lebih minyak.Tak kira la sebesar mana pun kereta kamu, ia boleh memotong hampir 2 percent minyak kamu.


8. Pastikan tempat mengisi minyak kamu tertutup

Selain membahayakan , minyak boleh mengewap dan masuk melalui pendingin hawa.Bukan saja membazir minyak. meletup baru tau.jadi ,hati-hati.


9. Tumpanglah kereta kawan

Ni la cara yang paling jimat sekali , tapi jangan pulak buat muka seposen je tak nak bayar duit minyak . Nanti last-last jalan kaki je kamu.




p:s - bila la minyak kelapa nak boleh buat isi kereta ?

4 syor cegah seks bebas

Hari ni aku baca paper , ni idea untuk cegah seks bebas .

1.Benarkan polis periksa telefon bimbit remaja elak simpan bahan lucah

2.Kuat kuasa peraturan halang remaja bawah 18 tahun keluar rumah selepas 12 malam

3.Sekat laman web lucah, kawal kafe siber dan penjualan perisian tidak bermoral

Percepat pelaksanaan pendidikan seks secara formal di sekolah.



KUALA LUMPUR: Kerajaan digesa memperkenalkan segera pendidikan seks secara formal di sekolah serta memperketatkan dan menguatkuasakan undang-undang bagi membendung capaian remaja terhadap unsur-unsur pornografi sebagai langkah membanteras salah laku seks dan pembuangan bayi yang makin berleluasa.

Pelbagai pertubuhan bukan kerajaan (NGO) dan aktivis masyarakat berpendapat tiada kompromi untuk membendung gejala itu, sebaliknya memperkenalkan pendidikan seks di sekolah, selain pemantapan institusi keluarga, agama serta menguatkuasakan sepenuhnya undang-undang.

Mereka berpendapat penemuan terbaru dua bayi lelaki di Rawang dan Seremban kelmarin membuktikan kerajaan tidak perlu bertangguh untuk menjadikan pendidikan seks sebagai antara subjek jika tidak mahu gejala ini berterusan dan merosakkan institusi kekeluargaan.

Kerajaan juga diminta mengenal pasti kaedah paling efektif menyampaikan mesej mengenai cara mengamalkan seks selamat, isu seks luar nikah, akhlak dan kesan kepada masyarakat serta penyakit berkaitan seks kepada pelajar, ibu bapa dan guru sebagai pengetahuan asas kepada golongan sasar.
Presiden Orphan Care, Datuk Adnan Mohd Tahir, berkata subjek itu perlu diperkenalkan segera kerana remaja mempunyai sifat ingin tahu dan berani mencuba berdasarkan apa yang mereka tahu melalui pembacaan, tontonan video dan laman web interaktif serta perbualan rakan sebaya.

“Kita harus memberitahu pentingnya mereka mengelakkan seks sebelum nikah tetapi jika tetap mahu melakukannya, mereka perlu diberitahu mengenai seks selamat serta tindakan yang perlu diambil jika mengandung,” katanya semalam.

Selain itu, katanya, satu cara membendung masalah pembuangan bayi adalah memperkenalkan undang-undang yang melindungi individu yang menghantar bayi mereka kepada pusat penempatan atau ‘baby hatch’ dan tempat lain seperti yang diamalkan di beberapa negara lain, termasuk Amerika Syarikat.

“Buat masa ini, individu yang meninggalkan bayi mereka tanpa dokumen di tempat selamat dianggap melakukan jenayah yang menyebabkan lebih ramai membuang saja anak mereka,” katanya.

Presiden Kesatuan Guru-Guru Melayu Malaysia Barat, Mohd Sobri Mohamad Arsad, berkata pendidikan seks boleh dilaksanakan melalui sesi kokurikulum kerana negara masih belum memiliki guru berkemahiran dalam bidang berkenaan, di samping tidak mahu memberi bebanan tambahan kepada guru.

“Kita tidak menolak jika kerajaan mahu melaksanakan subjek ini, tetapi biarlah dilaksanakan apabila kita mempunyai guru terlatih dalam bidang pendidikan seks dan pada masa yang sama, kita mahu mengelakkan pelajar dan ibu bapa mendapat menerima mesej salah mengenai pembelajaran ini.” katanya.

Presiden Gabungan pelajar Melayu Semenanjung (GPMS), Jais Abdul Karim, mencadangkan kerajaan memperketatkan penguatkuasaan dan pemantauan lebih kerap di kafe siber dan kedai menjual alat telekomunikasi kerana kebanyakan bahan lucah mudah diperoleh di situ.

“Selain itu, kerajaan perlu menggubal undang-undang supaya remaja 18 tahun ke bawah tidak boleh keluar daripada kediaman selepas jam 12 malam.” katanya.

Presiden Majlis Belia Malaysia (MBM), Mohd Maliki Mohd Rapiee, berkata ibu bapa perlu bertanggungjawab memeriksa gajet milik anak mereka supaya tiada sebarang kandungan pornografi yang boleh menimbulkan kecenderungan untuk melakukan seks tanpa nikah.

“Orang ramai tidak boleh bergantung kepada agensi penguatkuasaan saja untuk melakukan pemeriksaan terhadap gajet yang jumlahnya banyak di negara ini.” katanya.

Sementara itu, Presiden Majlis Pemuafakatan Persatuan Ibu Bapa dan Guru Nasional (PIBGN), Prof Madya Datuk Dr Mohamad Ali Hassan, berkata walaupun pendidikan seks di sekolah bukan jawapan kepada usaha membendung gejala seks rambang dan pembuangan bayi, fungsi institusi kekeluargaan terutama ibu bapa dan penerapan agama adalah cara terbaik mengatasinya.

Beliau berpendapat subjek itu sebagai pelengkap kepada ilmu pendidikan seks bersama ilmu agama yang sepatutnya diajar ibu bapa di rumah bagi memperkasa diri remaja daripada terbabit dan terjebak dalam salah laku seks.

“Pendidikan seks tanpa penerapan nilai agama akan mengundang kesan negatif kepada pelajar kerana mereka lebih cenderung mencubanya apabila diberi pendedahan secara teknikal dalam kelas,” katanya

p;s -boleh pakai ke idea ni?

21 Things You Should Never Buy New

If you're looking to get the most value for your dollar, it would do your wallet good to check out secondhand options. Many used goods still have plenty of life left in them even years after the original purchase, and they're usually resold at a fraction of the retail price, to boot. Here's a list of 21 things that make for a better deal when you buy them used.


1. DVDs and CDs: Used DVDs and CDs will play like new if they were well taken care of. Even if you wind up with a scratched disc and you don't want to bother with a return, there are ways to remove the scratches and make the DVD or CD playable again.

2. Books: You can buy used books at significant discounts from online sellers and brick-and-mortar used book stores. The condition of the books may vary, but they usually range from good to like-new. And of course, check out your local library for free reading material.

3. Video Games: Kids get tired of video games rather quickly. You can easily find used video games from online sellers at sites like Amazon and eBay a few months after the release date. Most video game store outlets will feature a used game shelf, as well. And if you're not the patient type, you can rent or borrow from a friend first to see if it's worth the purchase.

4. Special Occasion and Holiday Clothing: Sometimes you'll need to buy formal clothing for special occasions, such as weddings or prom. Most people will take good care of formal clothing but will only wear it once or twice. Their closet castouts are your savings: Thrift stores, yard sales, online sellers and even some dress shops offer fantastic buys on used formalwear.

5. Jewelry: Depreciation hits hard when you try to sell used jewelry, but as a buyer you can take advantage of the markdown to save a bundle. This is especially true for diamonds, which has ridiculously low resale value. Check out estate sales and reputable pawn shops to find great deals on unique pieces. Even if you decide to resell the jewelry later, the depreciation won't hurt as much.

6. Ikea Furniture: Why bother assembling your own when you can pick it up for free (or nearly free) on Craigslist and Freecycle? Summer is the best time to hunt for Ikea furniture--that's when college students are changing apartments and tossing out their goodies.

7. Games and Toys: How long do games and toys remain your child's favorite before they're left forgotten under the bed or in the closet? You can find used children's toys in great condition at moving sales or on Craigslist, or you can ask your neighbors, friends, and family to trade used toys. Just make sure to give them a good wash before letting junior play.

8. Maternity and Baby Clothes: Compared to everyday outfits that you can wear any time, maternity clothes don't get much wear outside the few months of pregnancy when they fit. The same goes for baby clothes that are quickly outgrown. You'll save a small fortune by purchasing gently used maternity clothes and baby clothes at yard sales and thrift stores. Like children's games and toys, friends and family may have baby or maternity clothing that they'll be happy to let you take off their hands.

9. Musical Instruments: Purchasing new musical instruments for a beginner musician is rarely a good idea. (Are you ready to pay $60 an hour for piano lessons?) For your little dear who wants to learn to play an instrument, you should see how long his or her interest lasts by acquiring a rented or used instrument to practice with first. Unless you're a professional musician or your junior prodigy is seriously committed to music, a brand new instrument may not be the best investment.

10. Pets: If you buy a puppy (or kitty) from a professional breeder or a pet store outlet, it can set you back anywhere from a few hundred dollars to several thousand dollars. On top of this, you'll need to anticipate additional fees and vet bills, too. Instead, adopt a pre-owned pet from your local animal shelter and get a new family member, fees, and vaccines at a substantially lower cost.

11. Home Accent: Pieces Home decorating pieces and artwork are rarely handled on a day-to-day basis, so they're generally still in good condition even after being resold multiple times. If you like the worn-out look of some decor pieces, you can be sure you didn't pay extra for something that comes naturally with time. And don't forget, for most of us, discovering a true gem at a garage sale is 90% of the fun!

12. Craft Supplies: If you're into crafting, you probably have a variety of different supplies left over from prior projects. If you require some additional supplies for your upcoming project, then you can join a craft swap where you'll find other crafty people to trade supplies with. If you have leftovers, be sure to donate them to your local schools.

13. Houses: You're typically able to get better and more features for your dollar when you purchase an older home rather than building new. Older houses were often constructed on bigger corner lots, and you also get architectural variety in your neighborhood if the houses were built or remodeled in different eras.

14. Office Furniture: Good office furniture is built to withstand heavy use and handling. Really solid pieces will last a lifetime, long after they're resold the first or second time. A great used desk or file cabinet will work as well as (or better than) a new one, but for a fraction of the cost. With the recession shutting down so many businesses, you can easily find lots of great office furniture deals.

15. Cars: You've probably heard this before: Cars depreciate the second you drive them off of the dealership's lot. In buying a used car, you save money on both the initial cost and the insurance. It also helps to know a trusty mechanic who can check it over first. This way, you'll be aware of any potential problems before you make the purchase.



16. Hand Tools: Simple tools with few moving parts, like hammers, hoes and wrenches, will keep for decades so long as they are well-made to begin with and are well-maintained. These are fairly easy to find at neighborhood yard or garage sales. If you don't need to use hand tools very often, an even better deal is to rent a set of tools or borrow them from a friend.

17. Sports Equipment: Most people buy sports equipment planning to use it until it drops, but this rarely happens. So when sports equipment ends up on the resale market, they tend to still be in excellent condition. Look into buying used sporting gear through Craigslist and at yard sales or sports equipment stores.

18. Consumer Electronics: I know most folks like shiny new toys, but refurbished electronic goods are a much sweeter deal. Consumer electronics are returned to the manufacturer for different reasons, but generally, they'll be inspected for damaged parts, fixed, tested, then resold at a lower price. Just make sure you get a good warranty along with your purchase.

19. Gardening Supplies: This is an easy way for you to save money, and all you need to do is be observant. Take a look outdoors and you'll likely find such gardening supplies as mulch, wood, and even stones for free or vastly reduced prices. Used garden equipment and tools are also common goods at yard sales.

20. Timeshares: Buying timeshares isn't for everyone, but if you decide that it suits your lifestyle, purchasing the property as a resale would be a better deal than buying it brand new: on average, you'll save 67 percent on the price for a comparable new timeshare. If you're new to timeshare ownership, give it a test run first by renting short term.

21. Recreational Items: It's fairly easy to find high ticket recreational items like campers, boats, and jet skis being resold. Oftentimes, they're barely used at all. As long as they're in safe, working condition, they'll make for a better value when purchased used than new.